
Dear Madam Brenda,
I am so in lust for our 19 year old babysitter.
I am a 45 year old man and thought I was very happy in my marriage. We now have a new babysitter who just drives me wild. I love the look she has long honey blond hair fresh look and just so full of energy it makes me long for those younger years.
I love my wife more then anything but the temptation is there, and I know she is willing.
Sex with my wife is just not what it use to be, its always the same thing and I think about what it was like when we were younger and knowing this hot young girl wants me is so exciting I am tempted to do it, but I know in my heart it’s wrong, but the temptation is so strong.
Please help me with this.
Very tempted in lust.
Hello tempted in lust,
First let me say thanks for writing.
I know this is a very difficult thing to deal with. Sometimes things can go a bit stale sexually in a marriage, but that is where the work part comes in. You have to work at it to keep it new and exciting.
I know the young girl is a temptation, and it is flattering knowing a young girl finds you so attractive. If there is love in your marriage the only thing missing here is communication. You have to keep that open at all times.
I can’t tell you what is right or what is wrong, only you know the answer to that. Ask yourself is losing the woman you are married to and love worth a hot fling with a young girl that will most likely move on to other young things?
Try spicing up your sex life with your wife by seducing her romancing her. I promise you no woman can resist a romantic night with the man she loves. Treat your wife like the young girl she was when you met her. Sex does not always have to happen in the bedroom. Spice things up and keep communicating.
Sensually yours,
Brenda
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