Dear Julie,

I have called you before you may know me as *Alan.  I have a girlfriend by the name of *Cyndi. Cyndi and I enjoy our time together she lives at home and I live at home still.  I love Cyndi so much but I have an addiction to masturbation that when I go with her I can not cum and I am scared to tell her that I can’t orgasm so I fake it what should I do?

Addicted to Masturbation.

Dear Addicted to Masturbation,

First you need to be honest with Cyndi.  If you don’t tell her and she finds out she will be upset and it will cause an argument and you will also chance the fact of hurting your relationship with her but not limited to ending the relationship.

Second reassure her that the problem is not her that it is you, and you enjoy pleasing her and that you get excited to please hereverytime you have sexual fun with her.

Third perhaps you need to stop masturbation. Continous masturbation can cause you to have certain sexual dysfunctions later on in life. However It has been proven in medical and clinical studies that men who masturbate will be less than likely to have prostate cancer. My suggestion is if you feel comfortable tell Cyndi that you have found phone counsling and lets talk about some solutions.

Dr. Julie Voss

1-866-513-0615

http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/julie.html

*all names have been changed for confidental purposes*

First of all, there’s something you must understand. Cunninlingus is NOT dirty or nasty! So many men out there have this pre-conceived notion that it’s gross or smells bad. A woman who wants this will never have a dirty pussy…or is that what you secretly want?

Is a dirty pussy what makes you hard? Does a sweaty, pungent with musk cunt make your cock drip? Do dirty moist panties wrapped around your dick make you cum in buckets? Call me to discuss this most common of fetishes!

Shay R. Freedman PST

866-651-9825

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Dear Julie,

I am writing you this email because I am at my wits end with my husband.  I know its probably unusual that you have a female write you.  It is like my husband has an addiction to masturbation, He wakes up and does it in the morning and then he does it 2 or 3 times after dinner and then once more before bedtime is this really healthy?

Wife in Need.

Dear Wife in Need,

First of all it is not unusual for  women to write me and I accept emails from all and everyone and do try and respond as much as possible.  Second: It is perfectly healthy to masturbate.  It relieves tension and in some of the newest research and studies do show that men who are addicted to masturbation and does it shows that they are lowering there chances for prostate cancer.  I tell my husband crank it like its going out of style.  Not last but least show some support and maybe he will open up and relax. I would say why not cook him a nice dinner and then do a nice sensual sexual activity like mutual masturbation.

Julie

1-866-513-0615

http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/julie.html 

Ok Love, let’s talk money. How many bills do you end up stuffing in a woman’s thong when you go to these strip clubs? Hundreds, right? By the end of the night, you’ve not only spent the cash you brought with you, but hit an atm for more, didn’t you? You’re addicted to the lights, the music, the lucious, sexy bodies swirling around poles and all over your crotch. You melt when you see the positions and stances that these women perform in front of you. HundredS of $$$-

When you call me, I will tell you that this is OK! It’s normal to have these feelngs. But what is NOT ok is how much money you’re spending Love! You could drop $500 in one hour at a place like that-but call me for an hour, and I will take you where you want to be, for a much more minimum fee Believe me, you and your wallet will be happier in the end after speaking with me:)

Shay R. Freedman PST

866-651-9825

http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/shay.html

Hi Cheryl

I am calling from the UK and was wondering if you would be able to to do a call with me and talk about, this is embarrassing but, playing with mommy and possibly lactation (nursing) too.

Many thanks Fantastic pictures

From the UK

Of course we can explore those things on your mind From the UK.

I have a vast array of topics that I am able to help you with.  Just pick up the phone and let’s explore them.

I thought I’d give you a peek at the tat!!

Cheryl

1-866-514-9737

http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/cheryl.html

Take care have a great day

Dear Julie,

I am seeking you out through a friend who you helped with his small dick problem.  My problem is that I feel I am addicted to breasts , every-time I see breasts I want to reach out and grab them.  About a week ago I was out walking downtown and couldn’t help myself and grabbed these beautiful DD breasts of this hot chick that was walking by, needless to say I ended up being charged for sexual assault and am worried because I had no intentions on doing something like this I am desperate and seeking your advice at any costs.

B.A.

Dear BA

First thing sweets, is you are doing the correct thing by seeking Therapy that will look good when you go to court for the sexual assault. My next question would be to you is do you have a sexual addiction also?  Any addictionis a bad thing. For example having to chew gum everyday at 2pm or walking around and making sure lights are off every 10 mins these are signs of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder which is also an Illness.

One thing I would do is write a letter of apology to the victim you assaulted. Then enroll yourself into a Sexual Annoynoumous Addiction class, and some therapy take several corrective actions before court so when you go before a Judge he will see you are attempting to better yourself and he may rule to throw it out with little or no cost or probation to you.  Check into your local laws and if you need any assistance Please do not hesitate to call me.

Julie Voss

1-866-513-0615

http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/julie.html

Dear Victoria
 
I wonder if you can give me suggestions on how to delay my orgasms!  You see my girlfriend has this huge sex drive and wants me to last longer.  I have a problem coming to soon and then can’t get it up again for hours.  I fear she will dump me real soon if I don’t figure this out.

Please help me Victoria!!!!
Explosive John
 
Dear Explosive John
 
What you are experiencing is not unusual actually it’s a common problem shared by many males young and old.  My first recommendation would be to see your Doctor to make sure your problem isn’t the result of a physical condition.  If everything checks out then I advise you to learn and practice the skill of orgasm control.

Successful orgasm control is best achieved through slow masturbation. One method of course is personal masturbation however in your case, I recommend you enlist the assistance of your partner and make it part of your sexual foreplay. The method of stimulation doesn’t matter however it must be slow and gentle varying the intensity. It will be your partner’s job to slowly stimulate you, bringing you just to the edge or the plateau phase which is where your orgasm is built.  Communication is vital since only you can tell her at what point she needs to back off and when to start again.

Persistence and patience is important to achieve your goal.  The good news is, in using orgasm control you prolong the sexual sensations, leading to longer intense sexual intercourse for both partners.

It will take time and much practice to achieve complete orgasm control.  Don’t give up if you don’t experience success right away.  The exciting thing is once you do you will discover pleasure beyond your wildest dreams!
Good Luck!!!
Victoria

Do you also have a question or need sexual advice?  Your answer is only a phone call away!

Victoria
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A song I heard recently…the words are perfect:

Let me take you on a trip
Around the world and back
And you won’t have to move
You just sit still

Now let your mind do the walking
And let my body do the talking
Let me show you the world in my eyes

I’ll take you to the highest mountain
To the depths of the deepest sea
And we won’t need a map, believe me

Now let my body do the moving
And let my hands do the soothing
Let me show you the world in my eyes

That’s all there is
Nothing more than you can feel now
That’s all there is

Let me put you on a ship
On a long, long trip
Your lips close to my lips
All the islands in the ocean
All the heavens in the motion
Let me show you the world in my eyes

That’s all there is
Nothing more than you can touch now
That’s all there is

Let me show you the world in my eyes

Shay R. Freedman PST

866-651-9825

http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/shay.html

Dear Julie,

I am glad I have found your site, and most of all on how much of a beaut you are.  However I have read through your advice blogs.  I must say I am rather impressed with your knowledge.  My reason for emailing you is for your advice on breast enlargements.  My boyfriend has a big breast fetish, a boob man, every-time we are out together he comments on how big this girl is and makes remarks such as wow look at that rack. Even to as I wish your tits were that big so I can titty fuck them. I have an appointment to get them enlarge however I feel as If I do this it will be a big mistake should I do it to make him happy?

Boob-less in Orlando.

Dear Boob less in Orlando,

First of all and most of all, He sounds like a male-chauvinist.  If its for him think about it Is he really worth it?  If he is already looking at other women now because your not “big breasted” what do you think he will make you do next.  I think if you are happy with your breasts now then leave them.  If he really loves you he would not ask you to do something for him like this.  I believe in natural beauty.  Perhaps you can go buy breast fill ins for your bra to enhance them periodically.  There fore you do not need to spend $$ on something you may regret later.  Put that cash to the side and go on a vacation with your boyfriend. If he doesn’t understand then he isn’t worth it in my eyes.  If you make a change , then do it for you and not anyone else.

Sensually yours,

Julie Voss

1-866-513-0615

http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/julie.html

Did you know that I am available on Saturday’s? Any kind of Sex Therapy you need, I can provide on the weekend! And, to make it even better for you, every Saturday there is a special. Purchase 50 mins of phone sex therapy time, and I’ll give you 10 mins FREE.

So, call me this weekend, and let’s talk about what you NEED.

Shay R. Freedman PST

866-651-9825

http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/shay.html