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Dear Julie,
I have a fetish or two but I am not sure of how to explain it. I have a lactating fetish, and diaper fetish and like to be treated like a baby and want a mommies attention all the time can you help me and see if its a fetish or if I am being stupid?
Baby boy.
Dear Baby Boy
The fetish you have is infantilism There is nothing wrong of wanting to play out a simple scenario with your wife , girlfriend or if they will not understand there are many phone sex sites that specialize in Infants. You can try the phone-sex mamas here at Thompson consulting. Http://www.phonesexmamas.com. There are plenty of mommies who love playing with their baby boys and can help you with all your needs.
Julie Voss
866-944-7627
http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/julie.html
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Dear Julie,
I have been in a relationship a very unique one to say. I am a 24/7 live in submissive and when I came aboard I found that the Master was actually married to his first slave. I must say I was a bit perturbed however, his only saving grace was that before we met he did mention that there were two sub missives, one was leaving him and was seeking another to take her place.
I gladly went and met the individual and he was nice and very attractive, that is when I found out he was married, but I accepted the terms of the relationship and moved in rather quickly.
Well 6 years later I am unsure of where things are to go now, I find the Master is now almost irritated with me and yet seeks other girls as he wants more “pussy” and wants to breed other women, Yet his wife does not want to have any more children and does not have a motherly instinct in her.
With that I must say I must give her proper credit for not bringing in another into this world and not being a mom.
Master does not like to role-play and yet enjoys role-play games like Dungeons and Dragons and Vampire the Masquerade and plays well but won’t with either one of his girls. He says he feels silly doing so.
Any advice Julie?
Girl Lost in submission.
Girl,
I must say Congratulations on six years most BDSM relationships I know that have other girls in the same relationship most are doom within 6months to 2 years max.
However your soon to be Master should have been honest with you to begin with however you understood and gladly accepted the terms remember that you are a strong willed woman. I never could be a third wheeler in a relationship.
Your Master wanting a harem is not unheard but is unrealistic in my eyes. As for your Master wanting to seed or breed women it sounds as if he is a chauvinist in my eyes. If two pussy’s isn’t enough then he will never be satisfied with what he can get and most women will see that and he will be always looking and eventually become desperate.
For role playing it is heard of from many of my clients they seem to get in a world of fantasy and role-play but say they feel silly doing so with there partner in a sexual way, I try and tell my clients that they need to pretend to be in that fantasy they role-play so if he is into vampire the masquerade then tell him you want to be his victim and reenact that scenario with him in the bedroom, remember set the mood and the scenario and be detailed in the room with props even and see if that helps.
Julie Voss
Phone-Sex Therapist
866-944-7627
http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/julie.html
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Dear Lady Robin,
I know this is going to sound weird but I have a small cock and believe that I should be punished for my inability to please a woman. I do get pleasure by being laughed at and by having my cock and balls tortured.
I like having them spanked and kicked and stood upon. I like being humiliated, and enduring all sorts of degrading things.
Is there something wrong with me?
Disturbed in Texas
Dear Disturbed,
No there isn’t anything wrong with you. In fact there are lots of gentlemen in your same predicament. CBT is quite a popular fetish. They feel that they aren’t worthy of a women’s attention, and so they compensate by being of what use they can. They find enjoyment in their own punishment, and the humiliation that they suffer in order to give pleasure the only way they can.
Lady Robin
1-888-822-1443
www.hotphonesextherapy.com/robin.html
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Dear Lady Robin,
I have noticed that when around strong women, I tend to act, well, rather unmanly. I just can’t seem to help it. I find myself following them wanting, almost begging for a look or kind word. Does this mean that I’m gay or that there is something wrong with me?
Worried
Dear Worried,
No worried there is nothing wrong with you, and it isn’t likely that you are gay either. You are just a submissive male. You want to be led by a strong woman, and you want to worship her. You need to find a woman that is receptive to that. A woman that you can pleasure and worship, one that will guide you in your submissive desires.
Lady Robin
1-888-822-1443
www.hotphonesextherapy.com/robin.html
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Dear Victoria
My wife of 10 years has just confessed she has been having an affair with my boss for over a year. I feel like a total fool since I had no clue! I thought we had a great sexual relationship but she tells me she needs more than what I can give her. She informed me she still loves me but it’s not going to stop cause he satisfies her sexual needs. I’m confused and extremely humiliated and not sure what to do. Can you help me understand?
Humiliated husband!
Dear Humiliated husband
It sounds like you have been the unwilling party of cuckolding. The facts are woman have been having sexual relations outside of marriage for centuries and generally the husband is the last to know of his wife’s infidelity. In most cases the husband is not willing to end the marriage and eventually excepts his wife’s extramarital affair. The circumstance can actually strengthen their relationship and it’s not usual for the husband to even agree to participate. Having said that being it’s your boss your wife is having the affair with it does creates a very difficult situation.
Ask yourself these questions:
Are you willing to except your wife’s infidelity? She says she loves you yet she isn’t going to stop the affair since she needs sexual satisfaction. Either you except it or end your marriage.
Can you continue to work for your wife’s lover your boss? That means you will have to face him everyday, how will that effect your work relationship.
There is no easy answers to your dilemma however I recommend the first thing you must do is to sit down with your wife and talk it over before you make any decisions on how to handle this delicate matter.
You have some very difficult decisions to make!
Good Luck!
Victoria
Do you also have a marital issue and need advice? That help is only a phone call away!
Victoria
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Dear Julie,
I have been in a LTR for seven years. 2 years collared as a submissive.
On the night that was suppose to be our 2 year anniversary he made plans with another girl in a local hotel and had sex with her and took my floggers and cupping set to use on her.
I also asked him months in advance what we could do on the day that meant everything to me.
Come to find out the girl he went to have this Rendavouz with was one of my best friends who told me the day after.
I am now hurt by it.
Now he told me today that he is tired of looking at me and dispises me.
What Is weird is a few days ago he had sex with me.
Confused
Dear Confused,
Seven years is along time to hold a consistant relationship, also congratulations on the 2 year collering.
It hurts me to hear on how inconsiderate your Master can be and has been.
In all honesty sweetness I would have been infuriated if he did what he did to you.
Mainly you should have had a celebration or a evening outing together, even if it didn’t mean anything to him he should have done this for you especially after you asked him a month before.
2nd hanging out with a friend and trying to deny it I begin to sit and wonder how many girls will come and let themselves be victimized by this womanizer.
My advice is if he is sick and tired of you, then you know what find someone else! He will then want you and at that point you can give him an unlady like gesture.
Take Care
Dr Julie Voss
1-866-513-0615
http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/julie.html
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Dear Julie,
I have a few questions about bondage and the bdsm lifestyle and I hope you have a few moments to spare.
1. What is the best rope for comfort?
2. What is the best Japanese rope bondage to use on females?
3. Do you believe in safe words?
Your time and advice is appreciated.
Master Rope
Dear Master Rope
BDSM is a subject that I can go on and on about it happens to be my favorite becasue I am a real time switch like my husband so I am going to give you some advice in the order which your questions were asked Sir in two seperate posts.
1. Before buying rope I would suggest buying a pair of quality scissors that will cut through rope, such as medical scissors. For safety’s sake, keep them on hand whenever you are engaging in bondage. In the event of an emergency, they will help if you can’t get the knots untied quickly enough.
2. Get rope that is about 3/8 inch thick. If you go too thin, the knots will be difficult to untie. It can also cut into your submissive’s skin reducing the time you can leave him/her tied. Rope that is too thick is difficult to work with.
3. Choose rope that is soft instead of scratchy. Think about how it would feel on your submissive’s skin. Scratchy rope could also leave marks, while smooth rope is less likely to do so.
4. Use nylon clothesline for bondage. It is easier to loosen than cotton and tends to stay cleaner. One drawback is that the knots can loosen themselves, although this does make it easier for you to untie your submissive.
5. Select colors that complement your submissive’s skin if you are turning her into a work of art. When engaging in bondage, you can make her more beautiful than she already is with colorful ropes in different thickness and textures.
6. Decide between braided or twisted rope. Braided rope has woven filaments, while twisted rope is the traditional kind that is wrapped in a spiral. Braided rope is easier on the skin and less likely to dig in and cause rope burn.
7. Prevent the rope edges from fraying. With nylon rope you can melt the ends with a lighter. Cotton rope is more difficult to keep from fraying. If you select it, soak the ends in glue and let it dry or use colored tape to keep the ends together.
Dr Julie Voss
1-866-513-0615
http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/julie.html
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Dear Julie
My lover has decided to make me do some weird things for him I am a bit confused. Some of the things he has me do are kneeling, asking him permission for certain things. He even has me ask him to cum during sex. I am worried he is too controlling, but Its very erotic to me. Help
In Need of advice.
Dear In Need,
What your lover is doing is training you to be submissive to him. It is part of the BDSM lifestyle. Now I understand why he is doing this without explaining.
1. Most people think that BDSM is an excuse for abuse! It is not an excuse. By what you have told me he does not seem abusive in any shape or form.
2. I think he wants you to find out what you are capable of learning and I see him starting with small things, and doesn’t seem to be rushing.
3. Kneeling before him is a form of respect, if I can offer some advice here, make sure when you are kneeling before him you are doing it with your head straight but your eyes are cast below his face. Unless he expects eye contact.
4. Asking him permission for certain things is not bad its getting you in the habit to ask for things, some times Dom’s like the idea to cater to there submissive at times, and that can be erotic too. Also for you to ask permission to cumis something I look forward to with my Dom. It is a good way to work up to an orgasm and to build it and when you build and build it is a very rewarding treat. Trust me.
Not last but least, a few pieces of reading that may interest you.
Screw the roses, give me the thorns-Very educational resource to learn about negotiations. Scenario set-ups and how to safely role-play your sexual fantasies.
Then for pleasure reading – Try the Marketplace series – by Laura Antoniou.
Dr. Julie Voss
BDSM Therapist
1-866-513-0615
http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/julie.html
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Dr. Voss,
I am really stressed out right now, I have just found out that my girlfriend is leaving me because my 3 inch cock isn’t enough for her and I love her very much and she said that I suck at oral what Can I do.
In a Crisis help.
Crisis,
Don’t panic. Remember its not the size that counts its what you do with it. I can tell you by experience that just because some guy has an 11 inch cock doesn’t mean he knows how to stab my pussy.
Have you looked into getting some books about oral pleasure for men to women, I am sure that if you do a google search you will find many. or at Amazon.
Next suggest to your girlfriend that you will help her find some cock that is adequate for her and you will be willing to clean her pussy out and even dress her for her dates and even fluff all the cock that cums home with her. Tell her you will be her cuckold boyfriend.
Dr Julie Voss
1-866-513-0615
http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/julie.html
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Dear Julie,
I have been in a relationship a very unique one to say. I am a 24/7 live in submissive and when I came aboard I found that the Master was actually married to his first slave. I must say I was a bit perturbed however, his only saving grace was that before we met he did mention that there were two sub missives, one was leaving him and was seeking another to take her place.
I gladly went and met the individual and he was nice and very attractive, that is when I found out he was married, but I accepted the terms of the relationship and moved in rather quickly.
Well 6 years later I am unsure of where things are to go now, I find the Master is now almost irritated with me and yet seeks other girls as he wants more “pussy” and wants to breed other women, Yet his wife does not want to have any more children and does not have a motherly instinct in her.
With that I must say I must give her proper credit for not bringing in another into this world and not being a mom.
Master does not like to role-play and yet enjoys role-playgames like Dungeons and Dragons and Vampire the Masquerade and plays well but won’t with either one of his girls. He says he feels silly doing so.
Girl Lost in submission.
Girl,
I must say Congratulations on six years most BDSM relationships I know that have other girls in the same relationship most are doom within 6months to 2 years max.
However your soon to be Master should have been honest with you to begin with however you understood and gladly accepted the terms remember that you are a strong willed woman. I never could be a third wheeler in a relationship.
Your Master wanting a harem is not unheard but is unrealistic in my eyes. As for your Master wanting to seed or breedwomen it sounds as if he is a chauvinist in my eyes. If two pussy’s is enough then he will never be satisfied with what he can get and most women will see that and he will be always looking and eventually become desperate.
For role playing it is heard of from many of my clients they seem to get in a world of fantasy and role-play but say they feel silly doing so with their partner in a sexual way, I try and tell my clients that they need to pretend to be in that fantasy they role-play so if he is into vampire the masquerade then tell him you want to be his victim and reenact that scenario with him in the bedroom, remember set the mood and the scenario and be detailed in the room with props even and see if that helps.
Dr. Julie Voss
Phone-Sex Therapist
1-866-513-0615
http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/julie.html
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