Dear Jailyn,
I love dressing in Woman’s clothes, sexy lingerie, lacy panties and bra’s, stockings high heels, mini skirts, and wish I could be a Woman all the time. I am looking for someone to expose my secret and give me no choice but to come out. Can you help me?
Signed Trapped
Dear Trapped,
I totally understand how you feel. I get asked this question a lot. There is no easy answer to your question. The choice to keep your secret or tell the world is a very hard choice to make. I know that the idea of being forced to tell the world seems like the perfect solution. You will still have the same issues to deal with whether you are forced or come out on your on. I suggest you make two list. On list number one list all the people that you care about and what you think their reaction will be. On list two write down all the good things about everyone knowing your secret. When your finished making your list let me know and we will go from there.
Your Therapist
Jailyn
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Dear Lady Robin,
I have noticed that when around strong women, I tend to act, well, rather unmanly. I just can’t seem to help it. I find myself following them wanting, almost begging for a look or kind word. Does this mean that I’m gay or that there is something wrong with me?
Worried
Dear Worried,
No worried there is nothing wrong with you, and it isn’t likely that you are gay either. You are just a submissive male. You want to be led by a strong woman, and you want to worship her. You need to find a woman that is receptive to that. A woman that you can pleasure and worship, one that will guide you in your submissive desires.
Lady Robin
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Dear Lady Robin,
I know this going sound odd, Lady Robin. I have a nice thick cock and it is about 8 ½ inches but for some reason I get very turned by thinking of my wife fucking other men, and not just one other man but lots of them. My wife so far has been great and we have a lot of fun finding guys to fuck so I can watch. I love fucking her after they’ve left and cum inside her, while my wife tells me what a better lover they were than I am.
What is wrong with me? Please help.
Baffled in New Jersey
Dear Baffled,
Actually, it doesn’t sound odd at all. The world for what you are experiencing and enjoying is called cuckolding.
Dictionary.com lists the definition of cuckold as 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife. 2. to make a cuckold of (a husband).
Wikipedia describes cuckold in this way. The normal definition of a cuckold is a married man whose wife cheats on him with or without his knowledge. A cuckold fetishist is aware of his partner’s activity and derives sexual pleasure from it. In this subculture, the female is typically sexually dominant, while the male takes on a submissive role, only becoming involved with her or her partner when she permits it—sometimes remaining altogether celibate. Other arrangements are certainly possible, however.
The desire for the male to enjoy being cuckolded is more related to sexual gratification and less about interpersonal ideals (respect, commissary, between the partners). Sometimes this is part of their sexual fantasy because they gain sexual arousal through being humiliated. Other times the husband finds pleasure through that of his wife. In a broader context, the contrast between a cuckold and the additional male participant is sometimes used to summarize an individual’s personality or behavior and the variability commonly seen in male libidos: the cuckold or beta male suggesting a lack of masculinity or alpha male representing that missing masculinity.
The wife and extramarital participant may both enjoy attempting to actively include him in the act of cuckolding as much as possible through serving her. Some common themes include praising her appearance, attempting to stimulate her sexually at the same time as the additional participant, and generally being engrossed in her enjoyment. It is common for the male to be more absorbed with the female’s pleasure than his own.
The wife who enjoys cuckoldry is sometimes referred to as a hotwife or cuckoldress
So as you can see baffled you are not alone in this fetish, and I am certainly available to discuss this with you at any time, whether it is to role-play your wife or for you to tell me stories of your wife’s cuckolding.
Lady Robin
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Dear Victoria
I am a young profession male who has a strange uncontrollable panty fetish. I have tried to stop but I can’t! When I put a pair of silky panties on I experience incredible sexual pleasure. But now I have a problem! I am in a serious relationship and I want to share it will my girlfriend. We have been dating for a while and I am planning on asking her to marry me. So far I have hidden my panties fearing rejection! Do you think I should I tell her my secret desire?
I need your advice!
secret panty lover
Dear Secret Panty Lover
First of all, your desire to wear women’s panties is not strange at all, actually it’s a very common fetish practiced by men of all ages.
Should you tell your girlfriend? Yes you must! The reason is very simple, your desire to wear woman’s panties is deep seated and won’t go away. You may try and I am sure you have tried to purge, only to start again. Trust me you will never be successful.
Do you want to face the possibility of having to hide your sexual desires from your spouse? The result will be an unhappy marriage filled with guilt and anxiety! If she can’t accept you for who you are and if she can’t embrace or at least tolerate your panty habit you must find a woman that will.
So yes tell her now don’t delay for your own peace of mind. Don’t deny your sexual desires!
The best of luck!
Victoria
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Hi Dr Jailyn, I need your help. My wife and I have been married for 18 years and just recently we have started to have a shift in our relationship. Our sex life is down the drain and has been for quite a few years (I have erectile dysfunction and we have always had trouble making her orgasm). I have noticed her looking at men more. I found male porn sites in the history on our computer and have found some unusual usage on her cell phone. I started thinking she was having an affair. However just the other day she approached me and said she wanted to try something new in our sex life.
She told me it was called cuckolding, and explained it to me. I didn’t like it initially, but she told me I didn’t have a choice. She said she’s going to fuck as many men as she can find, and that it was my job to be there to make her the most comfortable. This might be the closest thing to ever having a sex life with my wife ever again.
So, Dr Jailyn, what can I do to make my wife happy and how to be the best cuckold for her. I want to be everything for her and make sure she gets what I couldn’t give her. Thank you.
Dear Dysfunctional,
Bravo to you for being so ok with this! But I sense you’re not 100% convinced this is what you want to be doing. You have been thrown into this abruptly and against your will. But nonetheless, I want you to look at this positively and give it a chance.
Cuckolding is a very different lifestyle that you will be used to. Your wife will be engaging in sexual acts with various men, and you will be experiencing this with her. Try to think of it like this. You and your wife have hit a sexual
---- -end. You’ve lost that spark, that drive. Your wife is a sexual human being, and despite your dysfunction, you are too! seeing your wife so aroused is something that I believe you are going to appreciate, and incorporating sex into your relationship in any way at all is going to be healthy for you two.
Seeing your wife become aroused and having orgasms, and being a part of it will make you see your wife in a new way, and just might open new doors for you. She will get the orgasms she has been seeking, and you will get to see your wife being pleased, which will in turn bring you pleasure. My advice on being the best cuckold: worship your wife and do whatever it is she asks of you in your cuckold play.
Look at it as a win-win situation and just embrace it. Have fun!
Dr. Jailyn
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