Dear Julie,
I am a 30 year old male who has a hard time with my girlfriend sexually. However its like she wants to role-play with her sexually. Me and her argue almost on a daily basis on this. She states because I am a gamer that role-play should be good and easy for me. What is your advice Julie?
Gamer-boy
Dear Gamer-boy
Perhaps the most popular fantasy couples share is role-playing. If you and/or your partner have a sexy scenario in mind, try acting it out as part of your next sexual encounter. Many role-playing fantasies involve some sort of a power play, or a dominant/submissive scene. These can take shape as teacher and student, warden and inmate, boss and employee, etc. Others involve “chance” meetings as “stranger.” (These fantasies can be fun to live-out since couples can actually begin the fantasy in public!) As long as both partners are willing to engage in the fantasy, acting it out can be extremely arousing for both people. Take the fantasy further by dressing-up in costumes or even switching roles. Try these out and let me know if it works.
Julie
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