Dear Julie,
I have been in a relationship a very unique one to say. I am a 24/7 live in submissive and when I came aboard I found that the Master was actually married to his first slave. I must say I was a bit perturbed however, his only saving grace was that before we met he did mention that there were two sub missives, one was leaving him and was seeking another to take her place.
I gladly went and met the individual and he was nice and very attractive, that is when I found out he was married, but I accepted the terms of the relationship and moved in rather quickly.
Well 6 years later I am unsure of where things are to go now, I find the Master is now almost irritated with me and yet seeks other girls as he wants more “pussy” and wants to breed other women, Yet his wife does not want to have any more children and does not have a motherly instinct in her.
With that I must say I must give her proper credit for not bringing in another into this world and not being a mom.
Master does not like to role-play and yet enjoys role-playgames like Dungeons and Dragons and Vampire the Masquerade and plays well but won’t with either one of his girls. He says he feels silly doing so.
Girl Lost in submission.
Girl,
I must say Congratulations on six years most BDSM relationships I know that have other girls in the same relationship most are doom within 6months to 2 years max.
However your soon to be Master should have been honest with you to begin with however you understood and gladly accepted the terms remember that you are a strong willed woman. I never could be a third wheeler in a relationship.
Your Master wanting a harem is not unheard but is unrealistic in my eyes. As for your Master wanting to seed or breedwomen it sounds as if he is a chauvinist in my eyes. If two pussy’s is enough then he will never be satisfied with what he can get and most women will see that and he will be always looking and eventually become desperate.
For role playing it is heard of from many of my clients they seem to get in a world of fantasy and role-play but say they feel silly doing so with their partner in a sexual way, I try and tell my clients that they need to pretend to be in that fantasy they role-play so if he is into vampire the masquerade then tell him you want to be his victim and reenact that scenario with him in the bedroom, remember set the mood and the scenario and be detailed in the room with props even and see if that helps.
Dr. Julie Voss
Phone-Sex Therapist
1-866-513-0615
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Dear Victoria
I’m not sure if you will remember me Explosive John. I wrote to you last year about my big problem with coming to fast and having an unsatisfied girlfriend! I just had to tell you we took your advice and wow it really worked even though it took a hell of a long time it worked! Our relationship has never been better and the sex it’s out of this world! You are the best Victoria!
Thank You Thank You Thank You Victoria!!!!!!
John
Dear John
Oh what wonderful news! Yes persistence and patience does pay off! There is nothing more satisfying than great sex between two lovers! I wish you continued success in the bedroom as well as in your everyday life!
Keep up the good work John and enjoy!
Victoria
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Dear Elaine,
I am a 26 year old man who is addicted to phone sex. I have been calling phone sex ladies since I was 18. Recently my addiction to phone sex has gotten way out of control, to the point that I am spending $1,000 a week on ladies. I have a great job and I also am about to propose to my girlfriend. She has no idea I have this addiction and I don’t want her to find out either.
My question for you is how can I over come this addiction, I have searched the web and found no help. I need to overcome this because I fear if my wonderful girlfriend finds out she will leave me. Please Help!
Addicted to phone sex
Dear addicted to phone sex,
I am so proud of you for admitting you have a problem and wanting to overcome it. First, I want you to write a list of all the reasons you wish to quit calling phone sex companies. Then you will need to post this paper where you will see it everyday. I suggest taping it to your bathroom mirror.
Every time you look at your list think about your girlfriend and how you want to please her and be with her. I suggest you start small, take each day at a time. Instead of stopping cold turkey simply cut down on the amount of money you spend. Each time you want to spend more put that money towards something else that is rewarding to you.
The most important thing to remember is this…you are in control of your life, you can over come your phone sex addiction if you truly want to. It will be hard at times, but in the end you will be a happier person. Good luck.
Elaine
866-514-4715
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