Dear Michelle,
Hi there, I’m very new to phone sex. I have a lot of fantasies I have never told anyone and so I have given it some thought and think that maybe phone sex might be exactly what I need. I guess I’m a little shy though, and not sure exactly what to expect. I was wondering if maybe you could give me an idea of what happens on a call or what I can talk about? I really appreciate it, thanks!
~New to Phone Sex
Dear, New to Phone Sex,
Well first I want to say I think it’s wonderful that you are taking a step towards the world of phone sex. Phone sex can really open up parts of yourself that you didn’t know, or parts of yourself you are scared to show anyone else. You will not be judged, and your privacy is assured.
As far as what you can talk about, it really depends on the woman you choose to speak to. It’s always a good idea to first check out her page or website, read her blogs or stories. If you have a specific fetish or fantasy you’re still not sure she does after reading all of that, remember you can email her or send her a quick instant message. Then, I suggest buying an initial 10 minute call just to get to know her a little bit more and at this point you should be able to tell whether she’s for you or not. The biggest thing is to remember to just be yourself. Ladies of Phone Sex are professionals and there to make your experience a hot and satisfying one. Good luck, and maybe I’ll here you on the other end of my phone sometime!
Michelle
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Dear Elaine,
I am very nervous about writing you this letter. I am a 22 year old female and I recently had some naughty fantasies about my best friend father. Without getting into too much detail my fantasies began as simple I want to be intimate with him and have evolved into scenes from like a movie. Is this normal?
The hardest part of all of this is that I live with my best friend and her father. Her mother filed for divorce about 3 years ago and since then I know he father has not had “private” time so to speak. My question to you Miss Elaine, is this…Should I go for it and make sweet love to him and risk my best friend finding out and it ruining our relationship. Or should I keep my desires a secret and move on?
Please Help Me!
Naughty fantasies about daddy
Hello Naughty,
Let me begin by saying how common these fantasies are amongst young women. A lot of women your age have fantasies about an older man and same with younger men having fantasies about older women. The appeal of an older more experienced person is rising more and more among the young population.
So, yes your fantasy is very normal as well as common. Now on to the more important issue at hand. Should you become intimate with this man. Well, “Naughty” only you can decide that, my personal belief is this…Friends are friends and you should never do anything that would cause them pain or harm. If you are unsure about your friend’s reaction you could always try and talk to her about it. You two are “best friends” right?
With that being said I warn you to take extreme caution when discussing this topic. Being as the “older man” is her father the feelings might become a little strong. Talking is the best way to figure out a dilemma. If you are still too afraid to talk to your friend, well, darling I don’t think things are meant to get intimate between you and your older man.
Good Luck Naughty
Miss Elaine
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Dear Michelle,
For the longest time I have had fantasies of a bi-sexual nature. I’m not gay, but I do think alot about what it would be like to perform oral on another man or vice versa. I’ve never told anyone before, because I fear being judged or laughed at. I have a reputation to uphold given what I do for a living, and even though bi-sexuality is a lot more tolerated in society today, it is still an issue for me. I do feel it is normal to be having these fantasies, but my question is should I act on them? Thankyou so much!
-Bi-Curious
Dear Bi-Curious,
I’d like to first start out by saying that it is wonderful that you realize the normality of these fantasies. It is quite common for men to think about other men in a sexual way, and it does not make you less of a person or a man. I think it would be beneficial for you to explore this desire in a safe, healthy way. Maybe if you try it, you’ll find that it was in fact just a fantasy and not something you want to do again. Or, you could try it and quite enjoy it.
There are lots of ways to get connected to men who have the same curiosity. Perhaps if you found another man who isn’t so sure if it is for him, much like yourself, the two of you can get together and find out by helping each other. I wish you the best of luck and hope you enjoy yourself!
All the best!
Michelle
866-516-2618
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Dear Terri,
My girlfriend recently confided that she has always fantasized about being forced to have sex. She says she would like to play out a scene like this with me, in the bedroom.
I am really disturbed by this, as I have never, ever used force on a woman, and I don’t want to start with the girl I love!
I want to fulfill her fantasies, but I’m just not comfortable doing this, even if it’s only play. I can tell she’s disappointed.
Please help.
Robert
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Dear Robert,
I want to first say how pleased I am to hear that you and your girlfriend have such an open, honest relationship, and are able to communicate your secret desires to each other. Exploring your sexual fantasies can be an exciting way to spice things up in the bedroom, and to help couples understand each other on a deeper level.
Non-consensual fantasies are fairly common amongst women, but that doesn’t mean they want to be attacked, hurt or forced to do things they don’t enjoy. A fantasy is a very controlled scenario, where she can dictate what happens to her, and pleasure herself throughout. Many fantasies and fetishes toy with our strong emotions (like fear), in order to heighten the intensity of the sexual experience. Your girlfriend trusts you not to actually hurt her, to play the fantasy out according to her desires, and to stop if it gets too intense – all of these factors make it a very safe, consensual game, and not an assault or a violation of any kind. Her trust and love for you are key in her desire to role-play this fantasy with you.
I understand your aversion to even pretending to take her by force – men are taught from a very young age that it is wrong to hurt women, and it can be very difficult to go against that early training. Also, because you love her, you obviously do not wish to see her in distress.
I encourage you to talk to your girlfriend about what turns her on about this fantasy, to help you understand her desires. Common themes in forced sex fantasies include the loss of control and being unable to anticipate what will happen next. You may want to experiment with blindfolding her, or even with some light bondage – i.e. tying her with scarves to the bedposts – so that she can enjoy the feeling of being helpless. She may be excited by your physical strength and the thought of struggling against you – in which case, a compromise might be a playful wrestling match or a tickle fight.
Talk to her about your feelings, as well. It’s important for her to understand what is troubling you about this particular scenario. Together, you may reach a satisfying and titillating compromise!
One final note – should you decide to play out a forced-sex fantasy, please agree on a “safe word” before you engage in the role play. Agree that if either of you find yourselves becoming too uncomfortable with the scenario, to the point where it is no longer a turn-on, you will use the safe word, and stop and talk about your feelings.
Best of luck, sweetheart.
Terri
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