Dear Victoria
I wonder if you can give me suggestions on how to delay my orgasms! You see my girlfriend has this huge sex drive and wants me to last longer. I have a problem coming to soon and then can’t get it up again for hours. I fear she will dump me real soon if I don’t figure this out.
Please help me Victoria!!!!
Explosive John
Dear Explosive John
What you are experiencing is not unusual actually it’s a common problem shared by many males young and old. My first recommendation would be to see your Doctor to make sure your problem isn’t the result of a physical condition. If everything checks out then I advise you to learn and practice the skill of orgasm control.
Successful orgasm control is best achieved through slow masturbation. One method of course is personal masturbation however in your case, I recommend you enlist the assistance of your partner and make it part of your sexual foreplay. The method of stimulation doesn’t matter however it must be slow and gentle varying the intensity. It will be your partner’s job to slowly stimulate you, bringing you just to the edge or the plateau phase which is where your orgasm is built. Communication is vital since only you can tell her at what point she needs to back off and when to start again.
Persistence and patience is important to achieve your goal. The good news is, in using orgasm control you prolong the sexual sensations, leading to longer intense sexual intercourse for both partners.
It will take time and much practice to achieve complete orgasm control. Don’t give up if you don’t experience success right away. The exciting thing is once you do you will discover pleasure beyond your wildest dreams!
Good Luck!!!
Victoria
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Dear Michelle,
I have recently discovered that there are toys for men out there in the world. I always thought toys were just for women. I haven’t really looked for any yet, as I am still kind of embarassed to the whole idea. I was wondering if you could tell me some of the toys available to men, and what they are used for? I would really appreciate this, especially coming from a woman so it doesn’t feel as wierd.
~Toy Curious
Dear Toy Curious,
Hi there, well there most certainly are lots of different types of toys for men! Why should women get all the fun? There are Everything from potions and ticklers to erection rings, masturbators, penis pumps and extenders. You could try a penis sleeve or flesh light which is used to simulate the feeling of a vagina. Squirt a bit of lube inside and you’re ready to go. If you prefer to use just your hands the old fashioned way, think about investing in some great lubrication.
There are some awesome types out there intended for jerk off use only. Cock rings and erection rings are used for tightening around the cock and scrotum. They can increase stiffness, prolong ejaculation, and heighten sexual stimulation. You can even get rings that vibrate!! If you are interested in anal stimulation, there are lots of different kinds and sizes of dildos, vibrators, beads, probes, plugs etc. that you can use for this purpose. Some toys provide stimulation to all areas of the male gentalia at the same time. Then there are cages and an assortment of BDSM toys such as paddles, floggers, wrist cuffs, restraints, blindfolds, masks, rope, collars and much much more!
Take some time looking online for different toys, read user reviews, or go looking in sex stores nearest you. Don’t be shy about it, it is perfectly normal and will enhance your masturbation sessions as well as your sex life with you girlfriend or wife! Happy toy shopping!
Sincerely,
Michelle
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