Dear Victoria
I wonder if you can give me suggestions on how to delay my orgasms! You see my girlfriend has this huge sex drive and wants me to last longer. I have a problem coming to soon and then can’t get it up again for hours. I fear she will dump me real soon if I don’t figure this out.
Please help me Victoria!!!!
Explosive John
Dear Explosive John
What you are experiencing is not unusual actually it’s a common problem shared by many males young and old. My first recommendation would be to see your Doctor to make sure your problem isn’t the result of a physical condition. If everything checks out then I advise you to learn and practice the skill of orgasm control.
Successful orgasm control is best achieved through slow masturbation. One method of course is personal masturbation however in your case, I recommend you enlist the assistance of your partner and make it part of your sexual foreplay. The method of stimulation doesn’t matter however it must be slow and gentle varying the intensity. It will be your partner’s job to slowly stimulate you, bringing you just to the edge or the plateau phase which is where your orgasm is built. Communication is vital since only you can tell her at what point she needs to back off and when to start again.
Persistence and patience is important to achieve your goal. The good news is, in using orgasm control you prolong the sexual sensations, leading to longer intense sexual intercourse for both partners.
It will take time and much practice to achieve complete orgasm control. Don’t give up if you don’t experience success right away. The exciting thing is once you do you will discover pleasure beyond your wildest dreams!
Good Luck!!!
Victoria
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