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Aug
22
2010

Alt Phone Sex Therapist Ava Talks Toe Fetish

Hey Ava,

I’m in a new relationship with a great girl, but I have a big problem, well, ten little ones to be exact. You see, I’m totally into feet and toes. Now, I like sex as much as the next guy, but I also LOVE toes. I want to lick, suck, worship, and fuck my girlfriend‘s toes! Just one look at her feet and I can’t think of anything else. I want her toes in my hands, in my mouth, on my face, and rubbing my cock. The thing is, I’ve never told anyone about my fetish (until now) and I don’t know where to start with her. I just don’t know how to introduce the subject and I don’t want to scare her off, or make her think I’m some weird toe-sex freak – even though I totally am!

Please help me make my next date a toe-tastic sexcess!

Turned-On by her Every Step, 24, Columbus OH

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Dear TOES,

I’m really glad you wrote to me about your fetish. Just the fact that you’re telling someone else about your deepest desires is a step in the right direction!

Now, there’s no reason to be ashamed or even shy about your foot fetish. Foot and toe fetishes are one of the most common of all fetishes. You’re actually in great company, many celebrities and high profile persons have openly discussed their sexual preference for fabulous female feet and toes. Although less common in women than in men, there are also quite a few female foot fetishists out there.

Desires in male and female foot fetishists commonly cover oral and digital foot worship including everything from toe sucking, to foot licking, to foot massage; foot-jobs where the feet and toes are used in place of the hands to stimulate a man’s cock; foot-sniffing; foot-smothering; and even foot-fucking where the toes and sometimes even the entire front of the foot is used to penetrate a person vaginally or anally.

You don’t have to be shy or quiet about your fetish. You can certainly sit her down and explain in all the deliciously dirty detail what you want to do with her tasty toes… or, you can show her…

Many women actually love to have their feet pampered. Sometime when you’re watching TV with your girlfriend, offer to give her a foot massage – you’ll both enjoy it, and it’s a great way to make her comfortable and relaxed with you touching her feet. Tell her how pretty you think her feet, and how cute her toes. Buy her a gift certificate for a pedicure at a local salon or spa, or, offer to give her a pedicure at home. Women are very conscientious about their bodies, so if she feels like her feet are a feast, she’ll probably feel more comfortable losing her toe-ginity. Then, sometime when you’re in bed fooling around, work your way down her body, kissing her legs, her feet, and eventually her toes… massage her feet gently and begin to suck on her toes… then move your way back-up to her pussy and give her oral, or fuck her silly! I think you’ll find she’ll like the attention. If everything goes well, gradually introduce her to your other desires. She may or may not be interested in everything, but if you introduce your wants to her in a stimulating, loving, non-pressure format then I think she’ll not only be receptive to your desires, but toe-tally love the kinky play!

As with most sexual satisfaction that doesn’t only involve a warm zucchini and a bottle of lube, fulfilling your fetishes requires one essential component: communication. Your partner is never going to guess what you want. You have to somehow explain your needs. Make a move or start a conversation. If you find your partner is completely unreceptive to your desires, perhaps they’re not the one for you. If your kink is safe, sane, and consensual (SSC) then believe me, you can find someone who wants to play as much as you do!

I’m sure you’ll be getting a taste of your girlfriend‘s toe-trific ten in the very near future!

Alt Therapist Ava

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Aug
02
2010

Alt Phone Sex Therapist Ava Addresses Anal Woes

Hello Ava,

Okay, so, here goes… I love having my ass fucked. I love fingers, dildos, strap-ons, and once in awhile even a real cock up my ass! I have no problem with my love of ass-pounding, my only issue is with the unsightly mess it can sometimes produce. I eat a good diet high in fiber, go to the bathroom before the main event, and always use condoms and nitrile or latex gloves, but there is always some brown matter left behind in my behind. Sometimes my partner and I fuck way too hard to care, but there’s nothing I hate more than when my fiance is in the middle of reaming my ass-hole with her huge pink strap-on, and suddenly stops and says: “ewwwwwww… there’s something brown on the condom!”

So, I need your advice, from one kinkster to another, what can I do to make anal sex a no brown zone?

Into Potentially Offensive Orifice, 36, Pittsburgh PA

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Dear IPOO,

I am pleased to hear how knowledgeable you are about the safe and sane enjoyment of your chosen sexual activity! I’m happy you’ve found something that arouses you and your partner, and makes you love to fuck! Unfortunately, when entering through the backdoor there’s always a chance of getting dirty! Everything that you have described is great pre-anal prep work, and I’m confident you and your partner will be having angst-free anal before you know it!

One important step you can take is to preform a pre-anal enema. Although the chemicals and detergents in some over-the-counter enema solutions can be harmful to rectal health, a little warm water up the bum never hurt anyone, and even the most tenacious particles camped-out in your colon won’t be able to withstand a warm rain shower. You can purchase either an enema kit complete with one gallon enema cleansing bag, nozzles, pinch clamps, and rubber hose, or a simple large enema bulb – either of which can be found at your local drugstore or sex shop. To give yourself a cleansing water enema simply rinse and repeat, beginning with a small amount of water and taking increasingly more as it becomes comfortable, then voiding, and repeating the cycle. Check your progress after each expulsion, and once the water runs clear your ass-hole is a-okay! Many people find the enema process rather enjoyable, and colonic irrigation can actually become a sexual activity enjoyed for it’s own sake.

Once you’ve prepped and prettied the pipes, you’re ready to play! Although I think practically everyone in North America has been conditioned from a young age to be self-conscious, and even ashamed of their bowels and what comes out of them, the main reason for your ass-hole is to expel nasty brown stuff from your body. Fortunately, we’ve found other wonderfully-pleasant uses for that tight little pipe. Now, you and your partner are mature adults, mature enough to really enjoy your sex lives, so you know that even if something is unpleasant, or gross, it doesn’t have to be the end of the world, or even of your next marathon ass-fucking! Don’t stop the sex you love, simply accessorize it, or better yet – sexccessorize it! If you don’t already have a waste basket beside the bed, put one there. Then, go purchase a box of gentle wipes, and a box of kleenex, and put both of those by the bed, right beside the condoms, lube, gloves, and that oddly arousing Xena mask. Now you are prepared to fight that unsightly brown matter! Whenever a little brown appears, just laugh about it, wipe, toss, and continue fucking your brains out! After all, sh*t happens!

Good luck and happy anal fucking!

Alt Therapist Ava

1-866-433-7524

http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/ava.html

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Oct
27
2008

Dominant Unsure – Needs Phone Sex Advice

Dear Michelle,

I am a male dominate , who has two slaves one is my wife the other is a submissive who has served me for a long time now, however I question my slave wife and her honesty to me is going down hill what should I do?
Unsure of what to do,
Hirokata

Dear Hirokata,

Thank you for sending in your question, your situation is one that I would consider more complicated than a regular relationship. Not only because there are 3 people involved, but also master/slave elements. As in any relationship, honesty and communication are important. I think that in this type of relationship it is even more crucial.

I think the best thing to do would be to have all 3 of you sit down and talk with each other about how everyone is feeling, how everyone thinks things are going, and what you all can do to make sure the bond between you is strong. People are complex creatures and constantly changing, so what filled their needs a year ago might not necessarily be doing the trick now.

I wish you the best of luck, and hope that the three of you can sit and communicate openly and honestly with each other.

Michelle

866-516-2618

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Oct
15
2008

New To Phone Sex – Need Advice

Dear Michelle,

Hi there, I’m very new to phone sex. I have a lot of fantasies I have never told anyone and so I have given it some thought and think that maybe phone sex might be exactly what I need. I guess I’m a little shy though, and not sure exactly what to expect. I was wondering if maybe you could give me an idea of what happens on a call or what I can talk about? I really appreciate it, thanks!

~New to Phone Sex

Dear, New to Phone Sex,

Well first I want to say I think it’s wonderful that you are taking a step towards the world of phone sex. Phone sex can really open up parts of yourself that you didn’t know, or parts of yourself you are scared to show anyone else. You will not be judged, and your privacy is assured.

As far as what you can talk about, it really depends on the woman you choose to speak to. It’s always a good idea to first check out her page or website, read her blogs or stories. If you have a specific fetish or fantasy you’re still not sure she does after reading all of that, remember you can email her or send her a quick instant message. Then, I suggest buying an initial 10 minute call just to get to know her a little bit more and at this point you should be able to tell whether she’s for you or not. The biggest thing is to remember to just be yourself. Ladies of Phone Sex are professionals and there to make your experience a hot and satisfying one. Good luck, and maybe I’ll here you on the other end of my phone sometime!
Michelle

866-516-2618

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Oct
04
2008

Alcohol And Erections Phone Sex Therapy

 

Dear Elaine,

  I recently read in a magazine that ------- may cause erectile dysfunction. I am wondering if ------- is affecting my  ability to maintain an erection. I drink  two to three glasses or more of white wine per day and sometimes beer as well.  I am 42 years old.

  Thank you in advance for your help on this subject.

ED Candidate?

Dear ED Candidate?

 
Two or even three glasses of wine had over a meal shouldn’t have a negative effect, you are very thin, as the effects of ------- depend somewhat on body weight. On the other hand, three glasses of wine, followed by a beer or two later in the evening, nearer to bedtime, could definitely have an effect.

In other words, if a man is ----- , he might not be able to maintain an erection, but if he’d had some wine earlier, especially with a meal, it shouldn’t have much of an effect on his erections.

You should be aware that any problems with erectile function could be a first sign of circulatory or heart problems. So if the drinking is really in moderation and with dinner, then I would urge you to go see a doctor and inform him of the problems you are having.

Miss Elaine

866-514-4715

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Oct
01
2008

Phone Sex Therapy Question Anal Lube Anyone

 

 

Dear Elaine,

   My girlfriend asked me to preform anal on her the other night and we had no lubrication. I am writing to ask you what is safe to use around the house as lubrication and what is not? I know this probably sounds weird but I am very curious.

   I was going to use Vaseline or vegetable oil but choose to skip the anal until I heard from you.

Lubrication Illiterate

 

Dear Lubrication Illiterate,

   I am glad you asked before using things you had around the house as lubrication. Vaseline as well as Vegetable oil is not safe to use inside the body. Vaseline is used for external use only and vegetable oil well I am sure you can guess what that is used for.

  Using anything that is not made to be used internally can and will cause your girlfriend many problems, she could develop bacterial infections among other things. My personal opinion go to the local store and find yourself some water based lubrication this is the best kind to use for anal.

  Water based lubrication is slicker then oil based and it will allow your penis to slide easier into the anal cavity. My theory is this do not put anything in any holes that you would not want to put into your mouth and swallow. This is the safest way to protect against unnecessary damage and infections.

 

Miss Elaine

866-514-4715

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Sep
23
2008

Concerned Man Asks For Phone Sex Therapy Advice On How To Please His Woman

 

Dear Elaine,

  I have been with my current girlfriend for a little over a year now and I know she has never once had an orgasm while we are having sex. I have asked her multiple times how I can help her climax but she just says she is happy and content. I have asked her if she need clit stimulation while I am having intercourse with her.

  I can’t get anywhere when I talk to her, Miss Elaine and I am afraid in time she will get tired of this and leave. But how can I please her if she will not open up and talk to me? Please help.

Can’t please my partner

 

Dear Can’t please,

  I am very happy you came to me, your situation is by no means unique many women feel scared or ashamed to open up about their sexual needs. If you think about it all through the ages women were the more reserved ones and some women still feel this way today when it comes to sexual topics.

  What you can do is since the talking didn’t help try giving her oral pleasure longer. Lay on the floor and have her sit on your face, using the bed to hold herself up (this works if your bed does NOT have a frame). Try having your girlfriend be on top. The clitoral stimulation of her grind against you is sure to make her orgasm.

  You can also try the famous “ ------ style” position reaching around to manually stimulate her clitoris during intercourse. If these tips all fail you then I would have to say it is time to have a heart to heart with her again, but I am sure atleast one if not all of these suggestions will work perfectly fine for you both.

  Good Luck.

 

Miss Elaine

866-514-4715

http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/elaine.html

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Sep
18
2008

Phone Sex Therapy Advice To Future She Male Porn Actor/Actress

 

Dearest Elaine,

   I am 26 years  old and I was born a man. Ever since I was 16 I have wanted to be in “She male Porn“  I have begun herbal therapy to help prevent hard ons as well as stimulate more female hormones. I am unsure where to go from this point though. I would like to get breast implants at some time in the near future as well.

   I have a girlfriend currently who I have been with for 5 years now and she has no clue what I do. She is beginning to ask why we don’t get married and why I won’t let her stay at my house. I am afraid if I tell her she will leave and I do honestly love her but I also want to accomplish my goals in life. How can I tell her the truth without hurting her or our relationship?

“Lindsay”

 

Dearest Lindsay,

 

   I am first off excited for you to begin your herbal therapy, this will help you in your process. I also recommend doing some online searches for “she male porn jobs” and see what you can find. The breasts are a very big deal as well, you are just going to love having breasts.

  With that all being said I do have a concern about your lovely other half. I am sorry to say there is no easy way of breaking this news so to speak without the chance of hurting her or the relationship. You have hidden this from her for so long she is bound to be upset.  As a woman I would like a nice romantic dinner at home, followed by some gentle leading into the topic at hand.

  You can begin by asking her if she would like to watch some “she male porn“, if she says yes then during ask her what she thinks of the “she males” who knows she may be into it all the way and that would make your task simple. No matter how you tell her just be honest with her from now on I am sure she will appreciate it. Good Luck.

Miss Elaine

866-514-4715

www.hotphonesextherapy.com/elaine.html

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Sep
14
2008

Phone Sex Listener Feels Embarassed – Michelle Offers Advice

Dear Michelle,

I had something really different happen last night. I still live at home while I’m finishing University and I was laying in my bed doing some reading. I heard my parents having sex and at first I was grossed out a bit because, well, it’s my parents. Then, I realized my dick was getting hard to the sound of it and I ended up masturbating while I listened to them. I completely got off on the fact that it was my parents having sex, and I came thinking about it. I felt really wierd after, is this normal? I guess I just feel kind of like a freak.

~Am I A Freak?

Dear Am I A Freak,

Personally, I don’t think you a freak at all. Of course while most of us don’t want to imagine our parents having sex, or accept the fact that they did or you wouldn’t be here, our moms and dads do have sex. I think when you heard them you were turned on initially by the fact that you could hear two people being intimate with each other when they thought no one was listening or around. Then as you listened and came to the realization that it was your parents, I think the turn on turned into something on a deeper level.

The turn on came from the taboo of them being family, the taboo of listening to something very private, and many other reasons. Perhaps because it’s not something you really think about that much or ever see or hear. It is totally normal that you were turned on by what you heard, and of course completely normal that you masturbated yourself. I hope you enjoy yourself.

Sincerely,
Michelle

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Sep
14
2008

Phone Sex Addict Admits He Needs Therapy

 

Dear Elaine,

  I am a 26 year old man who is addicted to phone sex. I have been calling phone sex ladies since I was 18. Recently my addiction to phone sex has gotten way out of control, to the point that I am spending $1,000 a week on ladies. I have a great job and I also am about to propose to my girlfriend. She has no idea I have this addiction and I don’t want her to find out either.

  My question for you is how can I over come this addiction, I have searched the web and found no help. I need to overcome this because I fear if my wonderful girlfriend finds out she will leave me. Please Help!

Addicted to phone sex

 

Dear addicted to phone sex,

  I am so proud of you for admitting you have a problem and wanting to overcome it. First, I want you to write a list of all the reasons you wish to quit calling phone sex companies. Then you will need to post this paper where you will see it everyday. I suggest taping it to your bathroom mirror.

  Every time you look at your list think about your girlfriend and how you want to please her and be with her. I suggest you start small, take each day at a time. Instead of stopping cold turkey simply cut down on the amount of money you spend. Each time you want to spend more put that money towards something else that is rewarding to you.

  The most important thing to remember is this…you are in control of your life, you can over come your phone sex addiction if you truly want to. It will be hard at times, but in the end you will be a happier person. Good luck.

Elaine

866-514-4715

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