Dear Victoria
I wonder if you can give me suggestions on how to delay my orgasms! You see my girlfriend has this huge sex drive and wants me to last longer. I have a problem coming to soon and then can’t get it up again for hours. I fear she will dump me real soon if I don’t figure this out.
Please help me Victoria!!!!
Explosive John
Dear Explosive John
What you are experiencing is not unusual actually it’s a common problem shared by many males young and old. My first recommendation would be to see your Doctor to make sure your problem isn’t the result of a physical condition. If everything checks out then I advise you to learn and practice the skill of orgasm control.
Successful orgasm control is best achieved through slow masturbation. One method of course is personal masturbation however in your case, I recommend you enlist the assistance of your partner and make it part of your sexual foreplay. The method of stimulation doesn’t matter however it must be slow and gentle varying the intensity. It will be your partner’s job to slowly stimulate you, bringing you just to the edge or the plateau phase which is where your orgasm is built. Communication is vital since only you can tell her at what point she needs to back off and when to start again.
Persistence and patience is important to achieve your goal. The good news is, in using orgasm control you prolong the sexual sensations, leading to longer intense sexual intercourse for both partners.
It will take time and much practice to achieve complete orgasm control. Don’t give up if you don’t experience success right away. The exciting thing is once you do you will discover pleasure beyond your wildest dreams!
Good Luck!!!
Victoria
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Dear Victoria
I’m not sure if you will remember me Explosive John. I wrote to you last year about my big problem with coming to fast and having an unsatisfied girlfriend! I just had to tell you we took your advice and wow it really worked even though it took a hell of a long time it worked! Our relationship has never been better and the sex it’s out of this world! You are the best Victoria!
Thank You Thank You Thank You Victoria!!!!!!
John
Dear John
Oh what wonderful news! Yes persistence and patience does pay off! There is nothing more satisfying than great sex between two lovers! I wish you continued success in the bedroom as well as in your everyday life!
Keep up the good work John and enjoy!
Victoria
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Dear Elaine,
I have been with my current girlfriend for a little over a year now and I know she has never once had an orgasm while we are having sex. I have asked her multiple times how I can help her climax but she just says she is happy and content. I have asked her if she need clit stimulation while I am having intercourse with her.
I can’t get anywhere when I talk to her, Miss Elaine and I am afraid in time she will get tired of this and leave. But how can I please her if she will not open up and talk to me? Please help.
Can’t please my partner
Dear Can’t please,
I am very happy you came to me, your situation is by no means unique many women feel scared or ashamed to open up about their sexual needs. If you think about it all through the ages women were the more reserved ones and some women still feel this way today when it comes to sexual topics.
What you can do is since the talking didn’t help try giving her oral pleasure longer. Lay on the floor and have her sit on your face, using the bed to hold herself up (this works if your bed does NOT have a frame). Try having your girlfriend be on top. The clitoral stimulation of her grind against you is sure to make her orgasm.
You can also try the famous “
------ style” position reaching around to manually stimulate her clitoris during intercourse. If these tips all fail you then I would have to say it is time to have a heart to heart with her again, but I am sure atleast one if not all of these suggestions will work perfectly fine for you both.
Good Luck.
Miss Elaine
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Dear Michelle,
I’ve always wondered about how to make a woman squirt. I would love to try that with my girlfriend, she never has and doesn’t believe she can. I’m not sure exactly how to start, or what to do. Do you have any experience with this, have you ever squirted? Any advice you could give me I would really appreciate!
Thanks so much for reading, bye Michelle!
~Squirtless in Seattle
Dear Squirtless,
Squirting is something that highly depends on the woman. If a woman is closed minded to the idea of female ejaculation, the chances of getting her to are pretty slim and that’s of course her perogative. If you’ve got yourself a woman is sexually in tune with herself and willing to let you explore until she ejaculates all over you, then keep these things in mind.
A woman’s ejaculate comes from her urethra, the same place where
----- comes from. Studies show that the clear liquid that comes out is NOT
----- at all, but if your girl doesn’t have complete control over her PC muscle, there is a chance that she could in fact
--- a little in the process. If it happens, be cool about it, it’s definitely a sensitive thing for a woman. A woman is going to feel pressure like she needs to
--- when she’s about to ejaculate, so if she tries to hold it in it won’t happen.
Some women can ejaculate from penis penetration, but the most effective way is using your hands. Get her “pumped” up, tease her, play with her clit. Then insert two fingers inside, palms facing up. About an inch or two inside, you’ll hit a round ball of a skin otherwise known as the G-spot. Keep stroking the area with pressure, it may become more solid. There is no set time between beginning this and when she’ll ejaculate, it depends on the woman. As she beings to reach orgasm, prepare yourself to either be greeted by a light gush, or a drenching spray. The amount of liquid can reach anywhere from a teaspoon to a cup.
I wish you luck!!
Sincerely,
Michelle
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Dearest Elaine,
Recently my wife came to me and asked how I felt about wearing her panties. I was thrown off about this conversation I never knew my wife thought about things such as this. I am concerned about it a bit. Is it normal for men to wear a woman’s panties either before or during sexual relations? I am an open minded man and would not mind trying this to please my wife, however I am a little skeptical about the idea of it. I would be mortified if someone found out about this little secret. Can you please help me?
- Afraid of panties
Dear Afraid Of Panties,
Allow me to begin by saying you should not fear others finding out, your wife has asked you this and I am willing to bet she wants it to be in privacy as well. I do not believe many men will come out and ask about wearing panties for fear of embarassment, but what they do not know is wearing female panties is more common then you think. I know many men who share this desire to wear not only female panties but other female clothing as well. It is completely normal and nothing to be ashamed of.
My suggestion to you “Afraid Of Panties” is give it a try, see how you like it. Nothing tried is nothing gained. You may very well put those panties on and never want to take them off. If worse comes to worse and you do not like wearing the panties alteast you tried it for your wife.
Good Luck and Take Care.
Miss Elaine
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