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Hey Ava,

I’m in a new relationship with a great girl, but I have a big problem, well, ten little ones to be exact. You see, I’m totally into feet and toes. Now, I like sex as much as the next guy, but I also LOVE toes. I want to lick, suck, worship, and fuck my girlfriend‘s toes! Just one look at her feet and I can’t think of anything else. I want her toes in my hands, in my mouth, on my face, and rubbing my cock. The thing is, I’ve never told anyone about my fetish (until now) and I don’t know where to start with her. I just don’t know how to introduce the subject and I don’t want to scare her off, or make her think I’m some weird toe-sex freak – even though I totally am!

Please help me make my next date a toe-tastic sexcess!

Turned-On by her Every Step, 24, Columbus OH

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Dear TOES,

I’m really glad you wrote to me about your fetish. Just the fact that you’re telling someone else about your deepest desires is a step in the right direction!

Now, there’s no reason to be ashamed or even shy about your foot fetish. Foot and toe fetishes are one of the most common of all fetishes. You’re actually in great company, many celebrities and high profile persons have openly discussed their sexual preference for fabulous female feet and toes. Although less common in women than in men, there are also quite a few female foot fetishists out there.

Desires in male and female foot fetishists commonly cover oral and digital foot worship including everything from toe sucking, to foot licking, to foot massage; foot-jobs where the feet and toes are used in place of the hands to stimulate a man’s cock; foot-sniffing; foot-smothering; and even foot-fucking where the toes and sometimes even the entire front of the foot is used to penetrate a person vaginally or anally.

You don’t have to be shy or quiet about your fetish. You can certainly sit her down and explain in all the deliciously dirty detail what you want to do with her tasty toes… or, you can show her…

Many women actually love to have their feet pampered. Sometime when you’re watching TV with your girlfriend, offer to give her a foot massage – you’ll both enjoy it, and it’s a great way to make her comfortable and relaxed with you touching her feet. Tell her how pretty you think her feet, and how cute her toes. Buy her a gift certificate for a pedicure at a local salon or spa, or, offer to give her a pedicure at home. Women are very conscientious about their bodies, so if she feels like her feet are a feast, she’ll probably feel more comfortable losing her toe-ginity. Then, sometime when you’re in bed fooling around, work your way down her body, kissing her legs, her feet, and eventually her toes… massage her feet gently and begin to suck on her toes… then move your way back-up to her pussy and give her oral, or fuck her silly! I think you’ll find she’ll like the attention. If everything goes well, gradually introduce her to your other desires. She may or may not be interested in everything, but if you introduce your wants to her in a stimulating, loving, non-pressure format then I think she’ll not only be receptive to your desires, but toe-tally love the kinky play!

As with most sexual satisfaction that doesn’t only involve a warm zucchini and a bottle of lube, fulfilling your fetishes requires one essential component: communication. Your partner is never going to guess what you want. You have to somehow explain your needs. Make a move or start a conversation. If you find your partner is completely unreceptive to your desires, perhaps they’re not the one for you. If your kink is safe, sane, and consensual (SSC) then believe me, you can find someone who wants to play as much as you do!

I’m sure you’ll be getting a taste of your girlfriend‘s toe-trific ten in the very near future!

Alt Therapist Ava

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