Dear Victoria
I wonder if you can give me suggestions on how to delay my orgasms! You see my girlfriend has this huge sex drive and wants me to last longer. I have a problem coming to soon and then can’t get it up again for hours. I fear she will dump me real soon if I don’t figure this out.
Please help me Victoria!!!!
Explosive John
Dear Explosive John
What you are experiencing is not unusual actually it’s a common problem shared by many males young and old. My first recommendation would be to see your Doctor to make sure your problem isn’t the result of a physical condition. If everything checks out then I advise you to learn and practice the skill of orgasm control.
Successful orgasm control is best achieved through slow masturbation. One method of course is personal masturbation however in your case, I recommend you enlist the assistance of your partner and make it part of your sexual foreplay. The method of stimulation doesn’t matter however it must be slow and gentle varying the intensity. It will be your partner’s job to slowly stimulate you, bringing you just to the edge or the plateau phase which is where your orgasm is built. Communication is vital since only you can tell her at what point she needs to back off and when to start again.
Persistence and patience is important to achieve your goal. The good news is, in using orgasm control you prolong the sexual sensations, leading to longer intense sexual intercourse for both partners.
It will take time and much practice to achieve complete orgasm control. Don’t give up if you don’t experience success right away. The exciting thing is once you do you will discover pleasure beyond your wildest dreams!
Good Luck!!!
Victoria
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Dear Victoria
Is it like real bad to jack off in a store’s dressing room? I went to buy some jeans the other day and saw this hot chick and wow I got so hard that I had to take care of my boner so I figured hey why not jack off in the dressing room. So I did and OMG it was so fucking HOT!
I want to do it again and again!!! Do you think it’s ok or what?
Horny Dude
Dear Horny
I’m sure your little dressing room masturbation session was extremely exciting however such behavior can present some very nasty problems. It’s possible the store’s dressing rooms had security or surveillance cameras capturing your private jack off session. You very well could have run the risk of getting caught and possibly end up facing charges of public indecency or even worse!
Consider the fact the most dressing rooms have poorly fitted curtains or doors that could have exposed your personal masturbation session to every one nearby. So how do you feel about the being watched or having others listen to you? Also take in consideration there might have been a daddy with a young son using the room and were subjected to your display of personal gratification.
Don’t get me wrong I am all for masturbation and sometimes taking risks add extra stimulation however I caution you not to make a habit on choosing such a location to satisfy your need unless you are willing to except the risks and the possible consequences!
Good Luck and be careful!
Victoria
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Dear Julie
My lover has decided to make me do some weird things for him I am a bit confused. Some of the things he has me do are kneeling, asking him permission for certain things. He even has me ask him to cum during sex. I am worried he is too controlling, but Its very erotic to me. Help
In Need of advice.
Dear In Need,
What your lover is doing is training you to be submissive to him. It is part of the BDSM lifestyle. Now I understand why he is doing this without explaining.
1. Most people think that BDSM is an excuse for abuse! It is not an excuse. By what you have told me he does not seem abusive in any shape or form.
2. I think he wants you to find out what you are capable of learning and I see him starting with small things, and doesn’t seem to be rushing.
3. Kneeling before him is a form of respect, if I can offer some advice here, make sure when you are kneeling before him you are doing it with your head straight but your eyes are cast below his face. Unless he expects eye contact.
4. Asking him permission for certain things is not bad its getting you in the habit to ask for things, some times Dom’s like the idea to cater to there submissive at times, and that can be erotic too. Also for you to ask permission to cumis something I look forward to with my Dom. It is a good way to work up to an orgasm and to build it and when you build and build it is a very rewarding treat. Trust me.
Not last but least, a few pieces of reading that may interest you.
Screw the roses, give me the thorns-Very educational resource to learn about negotiations. Scenario set-ups and how to safely role-play your sexual fantasies.
Then for pleasure reading – Try the Marketplace series – by Laura Antoniou.
Dr. Julie Voss
BDSM Therapist
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Dear Victoria
I am a young profession male who has a strange uncontrollable panty fetish. I have tried to stop but I can’t! When I put a pair of silky panties on I experience incredible sexual pleasure. But now I have a problem! I am in a serious relationship and I want to share it will my girlfriend. We have been dating for a while and I am planning on asking her to marry me. So far I have hidden my panties fearing rejection! Do you think I should I tell her my secret desire?
I need your advice!
secret panty lover
Dear Secret Panty Lover
First of all, your desire to wear women’s panties is not strange at all, actually it’s a very common fetish practiced by men of all ages.
Should you tell your girlfriend? Yes you must! The reason is very simple, your desire to wear woman’s panties is deep seated and won’t go away. You may try and I am sure you have tried to purge, only to start again. Trust me you will never be successful.
Do you want to face the possibility of having to hide your sexual desires from your spouse? The result will be an unhappy marriage filled with guilt and anxiety! If she can’t accept you for who you are and if she can’t embrace or at least tolerate your panty habit you must find a woman that will.
So yes tell her now don’t delay for your own peace of mind. Don’t deny your sexual desires!
The best of luck!
Victoria
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