Dear Brenda,

First let me say you are a very attractive woman.

I am a 40 year old man who loves a big woman.  I have always been attracted to a full figured lady and do not care for the thin model type woman.

To me, the bigger the woman the more sexually attracted I feel to her.  My last lady friend was well over 250 lbs and to me she was hot, but my friends made that relationship very hard for me.

She left me because of the snide comments from the people around me and it broke my heart.

How do handle this, I do not like the women they keep trying to set me up with.  I want my sexy bbw lady back.  I the miss the hot sex, her smile, and most of all her love. Please help me.

signed,

Hot for bbw.

Dear Hot,

First let me say thank you love for the compliment, and for sharing your story with me.

I am very sorry you lost your wonderful lady to snide comments from the people around you.  Perhaps it is time for those friends of yours to grow up.

Let me tell you that two of the most sexy women ever in Hollywood would be considered bbw women by today’s standard.  Marilyn Monroe, and Jane Russle.  Both of these beautiful ladies took Hollywood by storm with their full figured bodies and luscious sensuality.

The bottom line here love, is your lady made you happy, and if your friends can not treat her with the respect she deserves then maybe you need to consider a change in friends.

Some people search a lifetime for their soul mate and never find them.  From the voice of experience only your other half can make you whole.

I hope in some way, this response to you will lead you back to what you feel in your heart is the best thing in your life.

My best to you love.

Be happy.

Brenda

http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/brenda.html

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Dear Julie,

I saw your bio on the hot phone-sex therapy site today and I must say you are very natural and down to earth girl in my opinion.  I must say I am a bit scared but I feel the need to want to open up to you today.

I am wondering if I am addicted to masturbation and if it is a mental illness?  My hot trophy wife will not have sex with me and if I bring up an idea she frowns upon it.  I also must admit I read her journal and found she enjoys forced sex. 

However when I attempted it she kicked me in the balls and ran out of the house  Will you please give me some advice please miss Julie?

Dazed and Confused

Dear Dazed & Confused

I am flattered by your reaction of being in awe with me.  Thank you for your comments and words of flattery.

As for your questions I will answer them with honestly.

Any form of addiction sexual or non sexual can lead to mental illness.  Addictions can be cured but will take time and energy.

For the Non Sexual nights with your hot trophy wife . I must say maybe your wife might be growing old of you perhaps she may be looking at alternatives for her sexual outlet,  Have you tried to ask your wife for an open relationship or maybe perhaps asking her to cuckold you?

As for reading her journal tsk tsk tsk naughty husband - maybe that is why she kicked you where it counts is you read something that was private to her.

Perhaps forced sex was not what she wanted from you so I propose this option to you.

Why not find a big back cock and set up a forced sex fantasy and fulfill her fantasy with someone else.  I am sure you will soak her panties and she may open up with you about it  but don’t count your erection before it gets hard.

Try it and see.

Julie Voss

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Greetings from your sensual erotic hypnotic therapist Brenda.

I want to wish each and every one of you the best holiday season.

For most, this is a very exciting and happy time of year.  But, for some, it can also be very depressing.

I want those of you who feel a bit down to remember there is always a friendly voice and a kind heart right here to listen and understand.  I want you also to remember loving and accepting who you are is the greatest gift of all.

Never give up.  If your waiting for that special someone to come into your life or your not happy with your partner now is the time for change.  You have the power to change things.

I am here, always with an open heart and mind.

I wish you all the best.

sensually speaking,

Brenda

http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/brenda.html

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Dear Brenda,

I have tried for years to get my wife to open up and try new things.  I am getting to the point where I do not enjoy sex with her anymore becasuse it’s the same old same old all the time.  I am not selfish by any means.  I love to pleasure her and make her cum it gives me pleasure to make her happy.  I even went out and bought sexy things for her to wear, double head dildo’s and many other things as well.  She has no interest in any of these things.  I even brought up a threesome with the man of her choice and that was a maybe.  I love her dearly but our sex life is dry as dust please guide me here on what to do to spice things up.

Thanks for reading my letter

Need spice.

Dear Need,

I want to thank you love for your letter.

Believe it or not, you have just taken the first step in trying to spice up your sex life!  I do believe it sometimes take a woman to understand another woman.

It is possible that your dear wife is just a bit shy to admit these things turn her on for fear you will in the end resent her for wanting to try a threesome.  This is an area that can be very delicate, and the decisoin to have a third party join the two of you has in a few cases backfired so to speak.  If this is something you both want to try, communication is the key.  Listen to what she has to say, and both of you weigh the pro’s and con’s of a third party.  I am sure with being open with each other on this you will find out what is holding her back since she is not totally against it.

As far as sex toys, I think they are a wonderful addition to any relationship.  There is no book darling, and if there is throw it out! LOL, it’s all about feeling not reading.  Give her the control, yes, we women love being in control sometimes.  Let her experiment and masturbate with them.  I have yet to meet a man who doesn’t get hot and hard seeing his lady pleasure herself.  This is a great forplay.  A sensual massage , foot rub and soft kisses behind the knees and middle of the back will drive her wild.  Always remember love, communication is a must in any relationship trust when I say, you will open up a whole new sensual lusty world for you and your wife.

Best of luck to you both on your journey to discovering your new sexual adventures

Sensually speaking,

hypnotc-phonesex-therapist-brenda-message

Brenda

http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/brenda.html

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Dear Michelle,

I am a middle aged successful business man, attractive and in good shape. I enjoy dating and spending time with younger women; usually college age to late twenties. Last weekend, a friend expressed to me that he felt it was inappropriate to do so, and questioned me as to why I don’t date someone closer to my own age. To be honest, my reasons are primarily sexual and vanity driven. I enjoy how I feel around someone younger, the sex is always energetic and fun and if they aren’t all that experienced I relish the fact that I can tell them what to do. I also get off on walking in to an important dinner date, party, or just merely a nice restaurant with someone slim, fit and young next to me.

My friend said that part of why he was telling me his feelings on the issue were to save me from the humiliation of finding out these girls are around me for financial or status gain. To be completely frank, this does not bother me as it no where nearly cancels out what I feel I get from the relationships. I am very curious as to your opinion on the subject, you are young and beautiful. Do you date older men like me? If so, why?

Yours Truly, AOBM

Dear, AOBM

Well speaking from personal taste and experience, I absolutely adore older men. I think girls mature a lot faster than boys and it’s quite common for a woman to want to date someone much older. You sound very confident and aware of your situations when you are in them. The fact that you can acknowledge and accept that a woman is dating you purely for financial gain or whatever is just mature of you, really. I can tell you are a businessman from the fact that you speak of your relationships in a give and take sort of way. What you gain and what they gain.

I have no problem exchanging a little arm time in public with a man or a hot sexy romp in the bedroom if he wants to spoil me. I love being spoiled! I say have fun until you meet that special someone, there’s nothing wrong with it as long as everyone communicates and agrees. *winks*

Michelle

866-516-2618

Cum Tell Michelle

I’ve got to say; I have noticed a few of you trying to get in touch with me (there was a call from Portland today that I couldn’t catch)  when I am either not here or in a session.

Don’t give up.  Unless I have your permission I will not call you back. Mr M in the Uk; I have some information for you.

You may want to make an appointment by sending me an e-mail at:

Cheryl@hotphonesextherapy.com

….and to “thehardestcockinTexas”

I got a kick out of your e-mail and will be calling to help you with your “oversexed” self.  I should be so lucky to find a man that wanted to fuck me day and night.  I think most guys think cause I am a therapist  I do not get hot.  That is not the case.  If you heard about how guys want to fuck their wife but can’t or the girl that wants to lick a pussy for the first time.  You can’t not get hot!!  Not that hearing about a guy wanting to suck cock 24/7 isn’t as hot.

Cheryl

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Dear Madam Brenda,

I so want to be a woman in every sense.  I just started breast enhancement supplements and I am a bit frightened.  Is this the right thing for me?  I love being feminine, I love the way I feel dressing and acting like a woman.  There is a very small part of me though that at times, feels I am still a man.  I was told by a close friend that I am just confused and that what I am feeling will pass.

I am more confused then ever!  I so much want to be a woman in almost every way.  Since I started the therapy with the supplements I have noticed changes in my body and the way I feel.  I am getting to the point where I don’t even like my male body parts.  Is this just a phase I am going through is there any other way to explore my feelings?  Please I ask you for any advise and need your help.

signed,

Wanna be a woman.

Dear wanna be,

First let me thank you for have the courage to write such a personal and very touching letter.

I have a lot of experience in this area.  I have a very good friend who is now under going the total change operation.  It has taken many years for this to come about.  There are so many difficult decisions to make before you ever consider anything this drastic.

I have had many clients come to me about these supplements, and as you know I can not advise you about this, you need to check with your doc to make sure there is no harm that can come about.  Your health both physical and emotional are the most important things to consider.

Now, there are things that you can work with.  I am a tantric hypnotic.  I use sensual erotic hypnosis to guide many into the wonderful world of feminization.  This is so wonderful and I would love to have the chance to relax you and help you explore your total female side.  Giving you the total feminine exploration you need with out risking your health.  All my clients have had a beautiful journey and I hope you will consider this, I would love to help you explore the female side of you.

All my best love,

Madam Brenda

http://www.hotphonesextherapy.com/brenda.html

866-727-9269

Cheryl

I’m not sure if you remember me or not.  I had written in earlier stating I didn’t feel my session with you went well.

I’m writing now to let you know that after our last call I can see and feel a total change.  I have been able to apporach women that interest me without feeling the shortcomings I felt before.  I can hear your voice re-enforcing me.  My cock seems to grow in my mind and it is carried right down to my balls. Even if it is not the biggest cock; it is strong and hard.  I know I can fuck along with the best of them.  You were right in that I needed a longer call.

A changed mind,

Bill

Bill

Thank you for calling back.  If you really have a problem this is what you must do.  I’m not saying every call you do should be a long call.  I am saying that a first call should be a minimum of 30 mins or longer.  After that re-enforcing calls can be shorter although some call for the longer time each time.

The more time you give me; the more I can help you.  I can help you with the darkest desires.  I can make you feel confident about your penis, I can give you courage to step out in your finest sissy attire, I can help you approach that special woman you think you could never fuck.…….Not only that but I can help you see how hypnosis can change your outlook on everyday happenings, on your desire to move ahead in your chosen profession, on the courage to change your direction and achieve your goals.

Looking forward to your call

Cheryl

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Dear Michelle,

I am a sissy and was writing to you to see if you could give me some good ideas for sissy tasks I could do for next weekend. I love shopping and am not afraid to go out in public dressed up in my ultra-girly form. I love the attention and looks I get from strangers. D

x and o’s

SissyTamara

Dear, SissyTamara

There are lots of fun girly things you can do, like going dress shopping or perfume sampling. Go right up to the counter and ask to try on a few different scents. You could tell an ex-girlfriend or an old friend that you are a sissy, admit it to them in person so they can see you all dressed up. Go get a bikini wax and make sure that area is nice and clean like a pretty girls pussy should be. Anywhere where there are lots of people to see your sissy self. Then give me a call and tell me what happened! I wish you luck!

Michelle

866-516-2618

Cum Tell Michelle

Dear Cheryl

Some time ago I lost my job; my self respect, and my manhood.  My wife forces me to be her slave.  She makes me wear a maids uniform with high heels.  She has brow beaten me so that I want so bad to take back my manhood; tie her down; and make her choke on my dick.  I want to bring strangers over to fuck her; make her beg them to stop.  I am so tired of her telling me that she has to get out and work; so she runs how things go.

Do you think you can help?

More than pussy whipped

Before I continue with the answer to this letter I want to thank Michelle for the mention of Madame Brenda and myself.  We are a happy family here and Michelle is a great therapist.

Dear More than pussy whipped

It seems to me you are on the road to taking your manhood back already.  The first step is usually anger.  You are making the right steps also by searching for the best solution for your problem.

I think if you spent some time with someone like me who could help you; you would fully recover.  I think that in just a few sessions you will be the man of the house again.  I can see you now…..telling your wife you are back and she is no longer in charge.  I can help you with the control you are looking for.  You can do those things you want.  Make her the slave; make her take strangers up the ass and in the pussy and mouth.  Force her to take on more than one man; one in her pussy,mouth and ass.

Give me a call and let’s take the steps together

Cheryl

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